September 2009

Unclean Spirits

TW said I should read Unclean Spirits and it seemed like a smart choice for the trip home from BlogHer Food. There was no way I’d be able to read anything deep or serious, not with that level of exhaustion, illness and frustration.

As it was, I could only barely read the fluff (in a dark, deadly sort of fluffy way) and it took about twice as long to finish as it should have.

Jayne is a pretty solid female character. Oh she has her problems but she’s a teenager. With bad parents. And a crazy uncle who didn’t prepare her for what she was stepping into. (People, learn a lesson – if you’re going to leave someone a gazillion dollars and the job of fighting demons, prepare them for the task – even if you are sure you aren’t going to die for ages and even if you think the person you’re leaving the money and the job to is too young to hear it. Prep is good. Really it is.)

I’m not dying to read the next book but I won’t turn my nose up at it if it appears on my library list.

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Genie is talking about The Hunger Challenge.

7 bloggers last year, 22 this year.
Tyson took interest last year in the Hunger Challenge and delivered food to food banks. Last week, they delivered 2K pounds of food to a food bank.

(My “b” key isn’t working well. This is not good. “b” is important in blogging.)

I always think I’ll try The Hunger Challenge, maybe next year I’ll do more than think about it.

Valerie talking about World Food Day. BloggerAid. Changing the face of famine. Buy their cookbook, proceeds go to school meals program.

“Is Martha in the room?” – Lydia asks. Apparently Martha is not here, darn.

She taught cooking to a women’s shelter, in Boston I believe. She never baked a cookie that didn’t come from the Tollhouse bag. She saw Martha decorating some cookies and a friend told her that she could do it – so they did it. Husbands made the icing, bad grey colored.

Some friends made new icing with great colors… double iced. She wrapped up the cookies and took them to a Latina Transition program. People saw these large colorful cookies and loved them. Friends said when are you doing this again… holidays came around, she baked cookies, people stopped by and decorated. Domestic Violence shelter took their cookies.

Kept doing this cookie decorating once a year. She’s now a blogger. Someone she didn’t know blogged about Drop in and Decorate – she understood the concept of connecting with the community. About serving more than basic human needs, making them smile when they see the cookies.

She contacted King Arthur Flour – how about a baking kit? They finally agreed in 2007 holiday catalog. She wrote to food bloggers asking them to talk about King Arthur Flour and Drop in and Decorate. 35 of the 50 food bloggers said yes. Magazines and other traditional media picked it up. In the 2 years since that happen she’s had events in 18 states. In December they’ll decorate their 10 thousandth cookie for donation.

Here’s the King Arthur Drop in and Decorate Kit.

Pim – Menu for Hope.

She feels funny talking about Menu for Hope because she feels like most of us have been involved in it.

If there’s one thing that we should remember when we walk away is the concept of community. We have a community of food bloggers and we work together – I started it but I couldn’t have done it without help.

“She’s an inadvertent fundraiser.”

They typhoon in Thailand drove her to do something. She didn’t have any experience with it – so “Hey, I’m just going to beg my readers. Give me $10… I’m just going to put out a bowl and hopefully people will drop ten bucks in it.”

We had menus with recipes and ask people to donate money to get the recipes. I think we raised $1500 in a week. She was amazed.

Second year I thought about doing it again and now it’s a yearly project. We raised a quarter of a million dollars in the last few years.

It’s more structured, from begging for money to getting gift donations for people to bid on. buy raffles for.

If you do fundraising on your blog, be transparent. Tell people where the money is going.

Make the giving process fun. Menu for Hope – prizes (like the naming of the first Ewe.)

They wondered why they were giving money to a giant organization, the UN you don’t really know where the money is going. We rethought it and decided we had to ask them where the money was going. Bloggers need to know the connection, so they got to choose the specific country and specific school lunch program.

If you want to do something, find a cause that fits your passion and your audience.

Genie – How did you choose the format for presenting your program?

Lydia – became an organization, she found as it began to grow there was more info that she wanted to put out not just the recipes for icing but list of agencies that have received cookies, how to find recipients, so I needed a place for the info but I also wanted a permanent home on THe perfect pantry (her blog) – she decided to start a separate blog but that she’d use a badge that’s always on her blog that links Drop in and Decorate.

She wanted it separate because she monetizes Perfect Pantry needs to keep that separate.

Pim has different point of view. Menu for Hope started organically on Chez Pim. We’ve thought about putting Menu for Hope on a separate site but for me activism is part of every day life so it’s important that I separate it from my life. I’m not going to be a full time fundraiser so I think of Menu for Hope as part of what I do within the community that I connect to.

Lydia – Menu for HOpe is once a year, Drop in and Decorate is year round. In order to keep DIandD has to be nurtured all of the time.

Val has a social network. We don’t want to just ask for money, they want to have fun in the network. View and review program, contacting publishers and companies who provide products for review – for fun within the network. If it isn’t fun, then people will leave.

Genie asks how they use social networking to increase visibility.

Pim says Menu for Hope was big before Twitter took off. Will be interesting to see what happens this year. Would like to break 100K, hopefully everyone will tweet and facebook it.

Lydia – all of you who tweeted yesterday about my flight, if you tweet about our project we’ll have great year. She wants to get better at using it. Personally she’s not a good tweeter but for the sake of her organization she wants to become better.

Valerie agrees networking is key.

Genie – has working on these projects changed how you feel about activism?

Lydia been an active volunteer for entire life. Started with people she knew in her kitchen, has evolved to people she’s never met in person.

Valerie she would not have found a BC organization that freezes food and ships without the internet – learned more about global projects and her own community.

Pim – she’s drunk with power, no no not really, she’s never been a big activist, she’s been in a few programs but not a big part of what she did.

Sam asking about charity fatigue. Been wary about doing too much. If all I ever do is charity stuff, will readers lose interest? How do you keep from feeling like you just can’t do any more.

Pim – it can be a problem. It’s fine to take a break. For me it’s 2 weeks in December, she tries not to get heavily involved in other campaigns. She’ll donate, personally but not on Chez Pim.

Valerie – delegating projects to members within the community so one person isn’t doing it all.

Pim – bringing in new blood, new volunteers who can keep it going when people burn out.

Genie – resources and links will be posted on BlogHer.

Lydia – Q&A – we are four people lacking in special skill, we aren’t uber talented have no training, nothing special but we’re passionate about something. That’s the only special skill we have. How many of you are using your food blogs to share things you are passionate about (show of hands) what will it take for the rest of you to do that?

Great session! Thanks ladies.

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The Year We Disappeared

The very best thing I can say about The Year We Disappeared is that with this book I finished my Cybil Challenge. Yay me!

I really wish I hadn’t finished with such a dull book. Dull, dull, dull. Disappointing because it’s a true story and a great story.

I’ve always wondered about relocation programs. So this should have been interesting and compelling for me. Did I mention it was dull?

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I am not a Foodie

Nope, I’m not a foodie. But I like foodies. I think they’re interesting because they are so unlike me. I’ve learned a lot of interesting things by watching foodies, listening to foodies, talking to foodies, and asking foodies weird questions.

I’m going to #blogherfood09 just to ask foodies lots of weird questions and to listen to them talk about stuff that I do not understand. I might even live blog a session or two.

Maybe. If I’m not too busy holding #eve. If I am too busy, don’t worry, there will be plenty of other people live blogging the sessions. They all know a lot more about food, food blogging and being a foodie than I ever will. Any live blog I do will be peppered with ??? and my own weird observations and questions. Feel free to laugh at me, make fun of my lack of knowledge about food. I don’t mind a bit.

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The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society

I kept meaning to read Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Soceity and I really thought I’d already reserved it once and TW had read it.

But nope, she picked it up off of the shelf and I actually read it before her.

Best book I’ve read in ages. It would have been perfect for the airport/plane but once I had read three letters and realized this tidbit, I couldn’t put it down.

Quick, easy read.

Interesting, compelling, likable characters.

A WWII storyline that didn’t bore me to tears because I’ve read so many WWII stories.

Funny but smart funny.

Go read it and if you find a reading group like this one, let me know and I’ll join it with you.

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Dexter by Design

I loved the ending of Dexter by Design and as sassymonkey pointed out, that’s the exactly the opposite of how I felt about Dexter in the Dark.

I’m a wee bit troubled by the title of the next book… I thought I knew what it would be, based on the ending. But it’s not (according to wikipedia…) Hmm now I’m a little nervous that Lindsay is going to flub up the next book after doing so well with this one.

OK I’ll stop worrying, I have to wait two years for the next book. Might as well settle in and just enjoy this one – and imagining GOOD things about what the next one might be like.

(SPOILER ALERT… instead of forcing us to wait 2 years, he should really release the next book 9 months from now…)

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Drawing in the Dust

TW put Drawing in the Dust on my bedside table. When I asked her why, she said because it was good and I should read it.

When I picked it up last night she asked me why I was reading that.

See what I live with????

She was right, it was good. It was worth reading. I read it straight through.

I never used to read these Biblical excavation/mystery types of stories, now I seem to read them all of the time. (I blame HER for that – it’s a good thing most of them are interesting.)

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Princess Ben

I couldn’t figure out why TW was so happy to read Princess Ben. And when she started talking about how excited RJ would be to read it, I was just plain skeptical. (RJ only reads vampire novels right now, unless forced to read something else…)

When TW and the kids came home from school pick up and RJ had stolen Princess Ben out from under TW… and then would not return it to her later that evening so her mother could finish it, I was more than a little shocked.

There are no vampires in Princess Ben. And it seemed like just another strong girl princess sort of book. Also, while I liked Off Season and Dairy Queen, the writing was not so compelling as to cause teenage girls (or their mothers) to fight over them.

So what was it about Princess Ben…? I have no idea, but it was good. It was compelling. It was worth fighting over. There wasn’t anything super surprising about it. This was not the first time we’ve read a Princess slays dragon and wakes the Prince with a kiss sort of book. I don’t even think it was the emotional eating Princess.

Not that I know what, exactly, causes this to be a great book – a combination of those things plus surprisingly good writing, characters you’re drawn to, and the dropped mentions of other fairy tales – all of the above?

Surely this will make the Cybil short list…

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Fight Like a Girl

I probably would never have made time to read Fight Like a Girl if it hadn’t been assigned for Michelle’s Intro to Women’s Studies class.

I’ve picked it up several times, in various women’s book stores, but always put it back down in favor of buying something else. Always thought “I should reserve this at the library.” and then never did it.

It’s that kind of book.

It’s also not the best book for someone who spends a lot of time knee deep in feminist issues (whether they are second wave, third wave or fourth wave issues) because it’s a little slow.

It is an excellent book if you’re looking for a what was feminism, what wasn’t it… what is it now, what can it be, what do you want it to be – or not be… type of book.

It’s also an excellent book if you’re looking for more resources and basic ideas for doing feminism or activism of any type. The “how tos” in the back were brilliant, not because they included anything new or unusual but because they were included at all.

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