I finished Third Base Ain’t What it Used to Be…. and I’ll review it on Fast Times. I do have a question for YOU… from the book… we’ve had a lot of discussion about this topic around the house (which would make Logan happy since we’ve discussed it with a couple of kids.)
Is it worse to lose your virginity drunk at a Frat party or at the prom?
What do you think? And why?
Well…chances are at the prom you’ve known the person you are losing your virginity to more than an hour. But maybe some people would prefer *not* to have known the person they lose it to. I don’t think one is necessarily “worse” or “better” than the other.
At the prom with your long-term boyfriend (is better).
I’m being hypothetical.
If I knew the guy I lost it to at the frat party and he happened to be
a good kid but we were both drunk and somehow he used a condom and
neither of us got an STD and he was the only guy I did it
with—–then it might be preferable to get it out of the way without
having to be there.
And losing it on prom night would be, most likely, anticlimactic. (in
both senses) But better that with a guy I trust and a condom than sex
with god knows who and no protection (which is how I envision the
other).
In reality–neither. With someone you have a such a good relationship with that you can be understanding, kind, considerate, and everything. Because it took us two weeks–*blushes* There were some technical difficulties. So it would have been horrible had I not been with him for so long (and just married, which helped because we were living together).