I can’t remember where I saw Have You Filled Your Bucket Today? but I thought it might be worth checking out for JMP.
Unfortunately, it’s not quite right. Besides the illustrations that portray people of color and disabled people as those who need help rather than those being helpful… the overall premise just doesn’t quite work for me. I think talking about these concepts with kids is important but I think there’s an awful lot of dependence on other people filling your bucket and we all know that doesn’t necessarily happen. (The co-dependence aspect is also potentially troubling, depending upon your child’s overall nature.)
Lots of elementary schools use bucket fillers are a reward system for classrooms.