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Daily Dose of TV – Turn It Off, Gilmore Girls?

Yippeee! It’s TV Turnoff Week! A holiday I won’t be celebrating but have no guilt over not celebrating.   It’s not that I don’t believe television has played a role in obesity, it has.  I’m not willing to make television the scapegoat though.  And, I just don’t watch enough TV to worry about it.  Nor do our kids.  I’m in the "everything is good in moderation" camp and that includes mindless fluffy TV.

Speaking of mindless fluffy TV – I’m tempted to celebrate that news that the Palladinos didn’t come to an agreement with WB/UPN and will be leaving Gilmore Girls after this season.  On second thought, that idea feels a wee bit hollow.  For the first few years I think the Palladinos made some really good television with Gilmore Girls.  It’s a pity they’ve turned the show into mindless fluff that doesn’t even make sense based on the history and character of the characters they worked so hard to create in the first place.  (though that scene last week with Lauren Graham giving the drunk "toast" was fantastic, Lorelai should not have been in that position in the first place)

I don’t watch much TV and it’s a shame that one of the two hours a week that I do watch has become a lot less enjoyable.  Maybe next year, without the Palladinos, will be a better one for Stars Hollow fans.  If it isn’t, I won’t feel at all sad about watching just one hour of TV a week.

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Daily Dose of Music – Organism

Which one of you bloggers is responsible for me having the mp3 Organism by Honest Bob on my iRiver?  Come on – fess up – someone on my blogreading list recommended this song a couple of months ago and I downloaded it.  And then I uploaded it to my iRiver.  And the gods and goddesses of the random play option finally allowed it some airtime.  And I laughed and smiled and laughed all the way through it.

I love it!  So whoever you are?  I’m thinking it was Badger but it could have been spanglemonkey or Paige… fess up, take the props you deserve and please feel free to recommend additional downloads in the future – ’cause your taste in music ROCKS!

Slowly you breathe in and out
As fluids and gas move through your frame
They travel to your hands and your feet
And then they return the way they came

I can hear you bubble
I can hear you hiss
I know it should repulse me but instead I’m filled with bliss
I can hear you gurgle
I can hear you sigh
It makes me want to kiss you and I’m sure I don’t know why

You’re an organism
Don’t try to deny it
And if I were you
I’d do my best to keep it quiet

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Daily Dose of Music – Random 10

necWow it’s been awhile since I’ve done this … and it’s a not-so-random 10 today, in honor of SXSW … my iRiver is only playing songs by SXSW performers.  How many SXSW performers are on your MP3 player?

1) Burn This Guitar – Melissa Ferrick
2) Margaret vs Pauline – Neko Case
3) Hairdresser on Fire – Morrissey
4) Hummingbird – Kris Delmhorst
5) All for Me – Melissa Ferrick
6) Black Friday Rule- Flogging Molly
7) Thankful – Glen Phillips
8) Bobby Lee – Kris Delmhorst
9) Talkin – Susan Cowsill
10) Hold On, Hold On – Neko Case

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Daily Dose of Music – Melissa Ferrick

Since I blogged earlier this morning about Glen Phillips opening for Melissa, everyone can assume we did in fact see Melissa at Skipper’s in Tampa on Friday, right?  Folks you should know by now NEVER to assume such a thing but in this case, you would be right.  We did see Melissa but not without some concern that she "got off the boat". 

Glen started his set at 8:30, playing to a packed house (can you call an outdoor bar a "house"? I guess you can since I just did) with people still in line outside buying tickets.  A couple of songs into the set someone came out and handed him a note.  I figured once again someone had parked in a bad spot and he was going to have to ask the folks with the white mercedes to move.  But no, apparently Melissa was in fact going to make it – there had been some doubt!?!  News to us and the hundreds who were waiting in line to buy those tickets but that’s a blog post for another day… Glen played on.  And played on.  And played on.  An hour goes by and he finishes only to come back out for an encore since Melissa was looking for a place to park?  (Weird since Melissa generally tours with her opener as in tours in the same vehicle – how did Glen manage to make it but Melissa didn’t?  Did she go out to buy his socks and get stuck in traffic?)  He finishes his encore and the radio station folks get up to talk about their station and their raffle and assure us Melissa will be out soon, she’s getting ready.

Another 45 minutes pass and the radio folks come out again (no sign of Melissa’s gear at all…) to give away their raffle prizes.  15 minutes later we get the first reassurance that we might, in fact, see Melissa – mics are changed, gear is brought out and there she is… orange sweatshirt and a couple of hospital wrist bands dangling from her left wrist.  Hmmmm

Soundcheck
She sets up quickly, sound checks quickly and quickly tells us that she is sick and asked them to fast track her ’cause she had to play tonight because there were so many people waiting… and play she did.  In the sweatshirt, wihch was odd – not the orange that both she and Michelle were troubled by, just the sweats in general was odd.  She didn’t chat much with the crowd and when she did, her voice was quiet and tired and shakey.  She didn’t drink near enough water during the set – she never does but when you’re sick… (I only play a doctor on the internet folks, but dehydration is not something to screw around with)…

Hard
Did I mention she played?  She did.  She played hard.  She had no visible set list (unusual).  She played an interesting mix of songs.  Not many new ones which I was both disappointed and appreciative of – I’m not overly fond of the new ones thus far but hearing them live, more often, would probably help that…

She likes playing at Skipper’s and Skipper’s likes her. Playing sick, and she definitely was sick – the wobble and grab for the monitor at the end was definite proof if anyone had doubts – but her performance on Friday is the sort that leads us to feel the Melissa groupie lust.  It’s the type of performance that makes us think about whether we could manage a trip to Lake Worth for the Saturday show.  Whether we could handle the drive home after the Freebird Live show in Jax. Whether we could take Tuesday off work and Wednesday, too, for the show at the only bar I’ve ever considered worth going to. 

Groupie
Melissa did what she does best, she put everything she had to give into her music and we got to experience it.  (more photos here)  Thanks Melissa – feel better, and if you don’t – then get off the boat and take a break, we do still love you when you need a break to take care of yourself. 

**edited to add…Melissa has cancelled her shows through the 11th but is scheduled to appear (I’m guessing this isn’t a performance) at the Delray Film Festival where Decade will be screened.  Both the cancellations and the film festival are good, in my opinion.   FYI Glen Phillips will still perform at the previously scheduled events so don’t get a refund, go and enjoy Glen!**

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Daily Dose of Music – Mr Lemons

Glen Phillips was the opener at Skipper’s on Friday night.  Do you know who he is?  A few of you, but probably not many of you.  If I gave you a hint and said "Toad the Wet Sprocket" would you have more of a clue?  Now more of you are nodding your head, right?  And with links to this and this I’ve probably got almost everyone up to speed on who I’m talking about… so anyway, he was the opener

I had no idea Toad had broken up, even though it happened a really long time ago.  Shows how up I am on alternative bands who hit it big, eh?  Well whatever, Toad’s loss was Melissa’s gain.  I am guessing that having Glen on tour with her has been better for her than having Tegan & Sara with her.  There were an awful lot of Glen Phillips people in the audience (or Toad people) – folks who had not heard of Melissa and were there just for Glen.  That simply doesn’t happen very often – even on the rare occasion that someone comes for the opener and only the opener (Tegan & Sara and Michelle Malone would be the big two – Anne Heaton, Erin Mckeown and Edie Carey to a lesser extent) they’re still the same "type of music fans" so she’s reaching the same type of people with those openers.  So – way to go Fleming and Melissa and Glen – because I assume Glen is reaping the same sort of benefit here.

Anyway back to Glen – good show.  He was cute and sang a good mix of his songs and songs from his past life.  He talked softly about his family (I hope his wife is feeling better, his kids haven’t starved and his friends are still his friends when he gets home) and he talked softly but firmly about Walmart (they’re *****) and Costco (they’re big box but pay a living wage).  He held up under the strain of not knowing if he was going to have a crowd of unhappy dykes to deal with.  He played an incredibly long set in front of a very mixed crowd of people – couple hundred there to see him, 3xs that many who weren’t there to see him.  He didn’t wear socks.  I liked him.

Visit his website and while you’re there click his myspace link – music is there and it’s good stuff.  Visit his blog it’s new and nice and quiet, post a comment so he’ll update more often.  And most importantly, if you’re in the Charleston SC area – I suggest you hurry and grab any remaining tickets for the show at the Windjammer (my only favorite bar in the world) and go see him (and Melissa while you’re at it) – tickets may still be available for the Freebird show as well for you Jax/St Augustine folks.

**edited to add…Melissa has cancelled her shows through the 11th but is scheduled to appear (I’m guessing this isn’t a performance) at the Delray Film Festival where Decade will be screened.  Both the cancellations and the film festival are good, in my opinion.   FYI Glen Phillips will still perform at the previously scheduled events so don’t get a refund, go and enjoy Glen!**

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Daily Dose of Music – Catie Curtis

We FINALLY saw Catie Curtis perform.  FINALLY.  TW has been talking about going to see one of her shows for YEARS but she’s either not in the south when we can go or we can’t go when she is down here. 

It’s weird.  TW has always been the one to say she wanted to see her but when pressed, TW doesn’t really KNOW much of her music.  I, on the otherhand, have never been all that anxious to juggle schedules and drive a couple of hundred miles to see her but I’m the one who knows all of her songs.  I think I also enjoyed the show more than TW did… even though she sang Elizabeth, which is one of TW’s favorites but not one of mine.

From things I’ve read about Catie Curtis, I had some concerns that her show would be "too political" particularly in terms of lesbian mommyhood politics.  It wasn’t.  She wasn’t.  She rambled about her kids in the typical mommy rambling way not the I’m a dyke and I’m a mom and do you have a problem with that sort of way.  Very "normal" stuff.  Cute stuff.  Talking about being primary mom, not having star status over the summer, her daughter singing "Milk & Water" instead of "What’s the Matter" and the baby practicing her animal sounds.  Just nice mommy stuff. 

The crowd at Cafe Eleven was well-behaved – apparently this wasn’t the case when Melissa played there awhile back.  (typical rowdy cats in heat and drunk dyke behavior that Melissa too often attracts – maybe if she really DID stop singing DRIVE at her shows she’d attract less of that???)   Very crowded show.  Opener, Anastasia, was cute but not great, she reminded us of a "Tiffany" aka Michelle type kid – young, somebody’s youngest child, struggling to sort herself out but not work too hard at it because the world should just KNOW who she is and that’s that.  Young.

I’ve got a fairly decent boot recording of the show but it is HUGE and I don’t have time to edit it so I can get it uploaded.  The iRiver did an ok job of it and maybe in my next life I’ll find time to split it up and edit out the part where I was in the bathroom with Catie Curtis – thinking I had it on pause when in fact it ummm recorded the entire pre-show bathroom visit!

Speaking of pre-show bathroom visit, during the show Catie talks about how tough it can be in a small venue with a shared bathroom.  The artist can overhear things about herself that she doesn’t want to hear… for instance playing at a UU Coffeehouse show she overheard one young woman who was less than excited to be seeing her play – she thought she was ordering Dar Williams tickets but hit the wrong button and "oh well, at least these tickets were less expensive!".  Catie didn’t hear that sort of thing in this pre-schow bathroom visit… and if she happens to peek in here she might like to know that TW and I paid less for our Dar Williams tickets, we drove a much shorter distance too.  Catie was worth the extra price and the extra drive.

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Daily Dose of Music – Gay Cowboys

From the title of this post you might think I’m going to talk about all of the blog fluttering about Willie Nelson and his gay cowboys.  I’m not.  I don’t DO Willie Nelson.  I don’t like Willie Nelson.  I only tolerate discussions about Willie Nelson for the awesome Nuthinfancy and the amazing catnmousie.  So no, this is not about that MAN.  And I’m not sorry, either.

When I first heard about the movie Brokeback Mountain and all of it’s "awesome" gay cowboyness my first thought was Y’all and their song My Man, Our Horses, and Me from the OUT LOUD cd.  I tried very hard to push that image from my mind.  I saw the movie and while it wasn’t anything like the "classic" gay cowboy song that the Flamingo House Family has often giggled over, I couldn’t get that song out of my head.  It’s just that kind of song.  You say gay cowboys, I think "side saddle".  You say gay cowboys again and I think "her name is windy". 

Go listen – and if you’re so inclined, listen to some of our "family favorites" from the cd while you’re there… The only Indigo Girls song I like, "This Train"…  "Weddings are Icky", because they ARE! … Chris and his friends loved  "Shave Your Head", one of the kids really loved "Kiss My Sticky" (guess which one!) and of course Melissa Ferrick is awesome with a song she never sings in her live performances, "Taking a Liking".

Out Loud folks, with gay cowboys.  And no Willie Nelson in sight!

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Daily Dose of Television – Gilmore Girls

Listen up Paladino, I’m getting angry.  Angry enough that I might stop watching TV altogether on Tuesdays.  That’s pretty angry since I am a diehard Gilmore Girls fan. 

What is Paladino thinking? Is she making it easier for fans to see the show end this year by turning really terrific characters into really horrible characters?  If that’s what she’s doing, she can just stop it.  As sad as I’ll be when there are no more weekly visits to Stars Hollow, I’d prefer the Gilmores, their friends and family, go out with a bang and not a bust.

Let’s look at the problems with the writing so far this season.

Besides the fact that we didn’t need a younger Rory and an old flame for Luke who is a mirror image of Lorelai, we’ve now got Luke acting completely out of character.  I get that he wants to be a father, that part makes sense.  But Luke would not do it in this fashion.  He wouldn’t have hid the truth from Lorelai for 2 months.  He wouldn’t be shutting her out right now.  And he certainly would not have canceled the wedding.  That’s not Luke, that’s some other dirtbag man of which we have many examples and do not need more.

And Lorelai, what is up with her acting all weak and submissive?  The real Lorelai would have said HO!, it’s not ok to cancel the wedding!  It’s not ok that you didn’t tell me you have a daughter for 2 months and it’s not ok that you haven’t yet introduced us to each other!!

By the way, making Luke into some idiot who has never lifted a book in his life is ridiculous.  In the early seasons Luke did in fact read.  He may not be a Rory and April quality reader but the man has never been a dumbie.  The dumbing down of Luke has been a progressive thing, a la "What’s the DAR" but this week’s episode was just too much.

Now let’s talk about Rory.  I know Rory has always made bad choices when it comes to men.  If you’re going to completely change a character could you change that?  Wouldn’t it be nice if Rory had actually grown up during her community service?  But no, you have Logan coming in to win her with a coffee cart and save the day with his Huntsberger family connections.  Rory should have saved the paper without him last week.  And then met him for coffee later, reveling in the glory of her success.  But no.  You couldn’t give her that.

The lack of supporting character appearances is also a problem.  No town troubador.  No Lane.  No Sebastian Bach.  No Michele.  Very little Paris and all can’t cope Paris makes for a really crummy show, people!  Heck we’re not even seeing much of Kirk or Taylor this year and that’s just crazyness.  Lorelai and Rory are the stars, no doubt, but what got this show where it is was, are the cast of supporting characters.  Quit with the Paul Anka and bring back the town!  I’d even take more of pfTL.  He’s better than Paul Anka.

I’m warning you Paladino.  I’ll quit watching on Tuesday.  And I may own seasons 1 and 2 but if you keep this up, I won’t buy the other seasons.  And I’ll stop searching for that fuzzy meowing alarm clock from season 1 that I’d kill to own.

Get rid of these pod-people versions of Stars Hollow residents and give us back the real thing.  RIGHT NOW (using Emily Gilmore’s voice, maybe that will shake you up).

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