Health and Wellness

Daily Dose of Choice – Billboards

I like to drive and I’ve driven a lot in my life.  I’ve driven in more states than I care to count and quite a few countries as well.  But I hate driving in Florida.  It’s not the old folks that scare me.  It’s not the teenagers either.  It isn’t even the propensity of Floridians to run red lights.  It’s the billboards. 

I went many, many years without driving in Florida but in 2001 my world changed and I made my first trip.  I saw a billboard.  I said "hmmm" and promptly put it out of my mind.  But then I saw another and another and another and before I could really process this I had seen so many that I considered never entering this state again.  (I also considered abandoning my vehicle and flying home to good ole South Carolina where I was mostly safe from such madness).  Now look at me – I live in this state and I see these things every single time I leave my house.  Because they aren’t just on billboards along the freeway, they are on buses on campus and buses in the city.  They are everywhere.  They make me ill.  They make me angry.

Here, Look for yourself but don’t say that I didn’t warn you.  They should make you ill too because they are intended to mislead you and manipulate you.  They are intended to prey upon the guilt that society has set upon you, guilt that is unwarranted and unnecessary.

If you are anti-abortion, then so be it.  I support your right to choose.  These folks do not support your right to choose.  They want only to manipulate your mind and your emotions.    They sprinkle their website with lies, half-truths  and religious fear.    They care absolutely nothing about giving you the right to make up your own mind.

Do not be manipulated.   Misleading statements, half-truths and opinions are not FACTS.  Choose for yourself, do not let these people choose for you.  It is your right to CHOOSE.  If you allow people like this to manipulate you into believing there is no choice how long will it be before they take away yet another choice – and another – do these people deserve that power over you? over your daughter? over your family?  I don’t think that they do.


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Daily Dose of Health – Vomit

I was all set to have a coffee date with two of my favorite coworkers, Snead and Leona when I get an email from Snead saying "sorry, can’t make it – Harry’s doing that vomiting thing again".  Darn.



I didn’t know what that vomiting thing was but regardless, it can’t be good.  Snead with auto-immune issues doesn’t need a bug in the house and who would want that cute boy to be sick?  Talked to Snead a bit later and she started describing what was going on – just out of the blue vomit, feel better thing that happens once every few weeks.  Weird.  Allergy?  But to what?  Or maybe, it’s this thing that TW and I are beginning to suspect with Michelle – Cyclic Vomiting Syndrome (free registration required).



I make a lot of jokes about my hypochondriac child (she gets that from her father’s side of the family) but maybe this is real?  She’s got a lot of the symptoms – happens around the same time every month, out of the blue, she has migraines and she has panic attacks.  It happens right before menstruation but we’ve tried hormonal birth control and that doesn’t seem to help.  Besides, her doctor says her hormone levels seem pretty ok.  Endo?  She doesn’t have all of the symptoms of that, but she does have some.



And yet, she’s always been the barf kid.  She didn’t tolerate breast milk or regular formula and only barely tolerated soy formula.  She gets car sick (and not just when TW drives).  She doesn’t handle food smells very well either.  She barfs when she’s eating a really well balanced diet.  She vomits when she’s eating junk food.  She vomits when she’s eating no food. She vomits vegetarian.  She vomits high protein.  You name it, she barfs.



So maybe it’s CVS?  Who knows, but Tuesday I’ll mention it to her doctor and probably get blown off.  It’s something to consider as we try and sort through this, isn’t it?



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Daily Dose of Chicken – Religion

Poor Sassymonkey has a problem. Some chicken that I, vegetarian that I am, though sounded yummy gave her some tummy troubles. I can relate. When I eat meat, (yea I know, vegetarians aren’t suppose to eat meat – sue me), I have that problem too. It doesn’t usually happen with chicken though.

BK Whoppers, Big Macs, Arby’s Beef n Cheddar – bad for tummy. A bit of roasted chicken, no problem. (Yea, I know. Vegetarians aren’t suppose to eat meat. I’m sorry you’re confused – get over it. It’s my life, my stomach, my stand!)

I wonder why chicken bugs the monkey girl. It’s lean. Relatively easy on every tummy. Hmmm. Maybe God is trying to tell her she needs to find religion and do it through the chicken?


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Daily Dose of Health – Mad About Medicine

OK ladies and gentlemen, are there any ladies and gentlemen actually reading this? Hmmm, whatever. I am proud to encourage you to run, I mean click, over to the GREAT Dr K’s nice shiney blog, Mad About Medicine and read read read. And add it to your RSS feed and keep reading reading reading all of the time. Dr K is the real deal. I’ve had the honor of talking to him about all sorts of interesting stuff, including the lack of smoke in blues clubs and cell phones dropping in toilets. Click, Read, Comment, Enjoy. I do, truly and honestly, recommend this particular blog by Dr K!

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Daily Dose of Kids – Premature Babies

Today, November 15, is Prematurity Awareness Day – so get aware! Visit SHARE, Medline, iVillage (man I miss Parent Soup – I even miss Parentsplace, which is frightening) and WebMD.

Or, just click these links to SHARE and jump in quickly!

* Learn about the Preemie Act
* Join a Discussion
* Read Some Blogs
* Donate

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Daily Dose of Health Care – ER

My attempt at not so live blogging from the ER last week led me to some interesting thoughts and questions about health care in the US and the attitudes of people seeking health care in the US. Before I get to the first thought, let me give you some data about my emergency room experience…

I’ve been to emergency rooms more than 50 times in the last 40 years. I’ve been to emergency rooms in 6 states and 4 countries (including the US and two that some would consider “third world countries”). I’ve been to Department of Defense emergency rooms and “civillian” emergency rooms. I’ve been to the emergency room that spawned these thoughts and questions about 10 times and walked through it a good 100 times. I’ve been to the ER as a patient or a family member/friend of a patient. I’ve been to the ER for suicide attempts and kidney stones, for broken bones and lacerations, for burns and for ear infections, for tummy troubles and breathing treatments, for foreign objects where they ought not be and psychotic episodes and treatment after car accidents. I have emergency room experience.

I have never seen so many people ask the folks at “triage” how much longer it will be ’til they are seen. Nobody likes to wait 4 hours or 6 hours or 8 hours to be seen but folks, in the ER, it isn’t about how long you’ve waited it is about who arrives in worse shape than you are. When the dude or dudette at the desk says I don’t know, it could be six hours he/she isn’t saying that to cause you grief. The point is, if EMS brings in 4 more patients and they have yet another helicopter come in, then it could be six hours or 12 hours. There is simply NO WAY to predict the type of emergency that is going to walk in the door in the next five minutes.

I have never heard people rant at the top of their lungs about the quality of care being given the way I heard them rant on Tuesday night.

One woman called her husband’s doctor, who she happens to work for, and complained and the man was taken back immediately. He apparently had blood clots in his legs and was tired of sitting outside chain smoking while he waited for treatment.

Another woman, whose husband had a dislocated knee, called someone in the hospital to file a complaint. They had been waiting four hours. She had to go home and get pain meds for him to get through the wait. She then proceeded to lie to whoever she was talking to and said she was looking at dirty bandages on the floor of the waiting room – there were none. She said some old man in a wheel chair had a coat over his head and head been pushed to the side, forgotten about and could be dead for all she knew. Umm, he was a homeless guy taking a nap. Happily panhandling the parking lot an hour later. She said there were infants who had been there for hours, sick and dehydrated and could die, those infants were toddlers and were happily running all over the ER – no imminent signs of death at all. She then proceeded to tell the poor person on the phone the little tidbet that had gotten me so worked up on the first place…

This is America! This isn’t a third world country! We are being treated like we’re in a third world country! Americans deserve better health care than this!

Ummm, has this woman been to a third world country, much less visited the ER in one? I somehow doubt it. In fact I doubt anyone who was happily, and loudly, spouting that nonsense has been to one.

I’ve been to two Emergency Rooms in two different “third world countries” and I guarantee you the folks in those ERs would have gladly given up 6 hours of their lives to sit in our ER instead. Our ER with AC that works (too well), 6 televisions, enough seating that nobody sat on the floor or stood while they waited. Free telephones that work. Bathrooms inside, most of which actually have toilet paper – and a plumbing system that allows you to flush the paper. Vending machines. A nice woman from housekeeping, who had injured herself while working and was waiting just like we were for treatment, handing out blankets to anyone who wanted them.

And what is with the “Americans deserve better” crud? Better than what? Better than all of those things that I listed? I don’t get it, at all.

It’s an emergency room folks. That means people with emergencies are going to wander in and they are going to be seen ahead of you. I know the waiting stinks. I know you don’t feel well. I know your son has a big playoff game on Thursday and those broken ribs might keep him out of the game and you’re frustrated. I know your toddler is tired of waiting and so are you. But believe it or not, it isn’t all about you or about me. It isn’t about being treated like you’re in a third world country or about the disaster that is American health care. It’s about the nature of the emergency, plain and simple.

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Daily Dose of Live Blogging – The ER

OK so I’m not live blogging because Blogger does not like my cell phone service. Let’s pretend this is live, ok? I promise I’ll post as soon as I get into a room with a connection…apparently it will be dial up yet again. I’d heard they had added a hotspot when they remodeled last here but it appears I heard incorrectly. Yet another reason for me to be disgruntled at having to spend a few days (or a week) in the hospital.

Now I am jumping the gun a bit. I don’t know for sure we will actually be dropped into a room but I have strong suspicions. TW has Crohn’s Disease. That’s a new diagnosis, until last month we thought TW had Ulcerative Colitis. UC has put us in the hospital twice, for 9 day stays both times. So I have experience with this, none of it good.

She’s been fighting it for awhile, but here we are, back in the ER. She tried to hit up the primary care doc for a diagnosis of “flu” or even “strep throat” but no luck. The symptoms didn’t match so I guess it’s a good thing the doc said “No way, hit the ER and see what the GI doc says.”

Now about the ER… it’s crowded. Really crowded. Lots of little kids, one of whom is very busy. She is visiting with everyone and her really young mama is a little annoying. The child is cute, the mom is ummm not. Let the child be cute or keep her corraled but you just can’t have it both ways in this type of situation. (My parenting advice from the ER, I know you appreciate this.) Another small child in a stroller, drinking soy milk from a carton, with a yukky looking gash on her forehead. The difference between the two children and the two parents is amazing. But that’s they way, isn’t it?

Have I mentioned we’ve been here for 45 minutes and have not yet been checked in by the financial folks over in the corner? It’s going to be an incredibly long night – and it’s Gilmore Girls night! We only watch two TV shows and GG is one of them. The one we most love to watch with Michelle (our 15 year old). Michelle is taping it for us but it won’t be the same, ya know? Instead of GG, we are stuck with ABC news at the moment. Arnold and the California elections and some Nascar thing. I know I live in the south and consider myself a southern woman but Nascar just doesn’t do it for me.

woohooo, TW just got called in for vitals check. Next stop, financial district! Progess, ain’t it grand?

I’ve spent a lot of time in ERs all over the world and it’s interesting how sometimes people look incredibly ill and other times there’s no obvious reason for them to be there. Tonight is an overwhelming look and feel of illness. Not good, for all of these people or for my s/o with the auto-immune disease. The worst place in the world for someone with an A/I Disease is the hospital, ya know?

This ER has absolutely no reading material. None. Not a pamphlet or a magazine or a children’s book or a Bible in site. There are magazine/pamphlet racks but nothing there. The little closed off room that use to be nice to go to for peace and quiet or to corral children in is gone. They’ve changed the traffic flow outside and that area was turned into the entrance. So no quiet spot. No benches where people use to sleep while they waited. No area where small children can sit on the floor and play without being in someone’s way. I hope they remedy both the magazine and quiet room issue.

Speaking of reading material, of the zillion people here, only my s/o has a book. No magazines in sight either. Too sick to read? Even the friends and family are too sick to read?

Something else new about this ER. After you have your vitals taken, you’re given one of those flashing beeper pager thingies like they give you at really busy restaurants. I’ve only heard one buzz since we’ve been here. Have I mentioned we’re going to be here for ages?

I wonder if TW would be troubled if I drove across the street, borrowed the Starbucks Wi-Fi and posted this real quick…and grabbed a quad venti caramel macchiato in the process… I’m sure it would be fine if I brought an extra one back, right? Oh wait, TW is sick and it won’t stay down (to put it nicely). Starbucks should not be so close and yet so far away.

I think I’ll mention those nice security folks who work in the ER. The woman I’ve spoken to the most seems to be off duty. She does “coroner duty” when necessary on all of the floors. Now that’s a tough job. She also handles suicide watches, I know about this from experience and I’ll share that with you another time. And of course there are the other types of disturbances that come into the ER and the folks who get injured while trying to avoid arrest. Anyway, the security staff here is good. One dude gives me the creeps and I don’t really know why. TW says he’s a nice guy so maybe it is/was just me and my frame of mind that evil night when I first saw him. The security folks just escorted an elderly woman in a wheelchair out with a 30 something biker babe-ish woman. Now that was interesting. Wonder what was up with that? The stories we could make up. I think people with writers block should come and sit in an ER for an hour or so. Storylines and character development would begin to flow… and might never stop.

A frantic man who needs a wheel chair for his wife. She looks ummm not so good. A very loud man with “a serious hand smash” (he’s putting a note on his car right now because he’s in the ten minute loading/unloading zone. I wonder what the note will say?). Character development, I’m telling you.

Remember when using a cell phone in a hospital was bad? When did that change? Did it at one time interfer with pace makers or something? Is that why you couldn’t use them? I’m not a big cell phone person. I should look that up.

Six hours? The receptionist woman just told someone it could be six hours til they are seen. Now there is yelling. Scarey – both the yelling and the potential six hours. Where is Dr K to talk about what’s wrong with healthcare in this country? Or in any country for that matter?

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Daily Dose of Health – Sinus Soothers

I woke up this morning with a stuffy head and achey sinuses. I know you needed to know this, didn’t you? It’s not really an uncommon thing for me but this morning I was dreading the day ahead (3 back to back phone calls) and doing some whining about it all while driving TW to work. TW’s response was “I’m sorry, but maybe you can take a shower.” Huh? is what I thought but I just figured it was some weird TW train of thought and I was totally not into going there at the time.

Fast forward 10 hours…

We’re home, the work day is officially over but I’m on the laptop in bed trying to catch up on my boards after 3 1/2 hours straight of phone calls. Wondering how I’m going to catch up. Wondering if Michelle did any school work, besides the Spanish oral exam (I know she took because the phone rang at the start of phone call number two and it was Sra. Johnson) and the blogging she did today. Wondering why I can’t take those special red pills of death like normal people because my sinuses are still yukky. While I was doing all of that wondering and trying to work and laughing at a coworker on AIM when what I really wanted to do was scream, the UPS truck showed up. I went out and grabbed the boxes and brought them into the bedroom. “I believe these are RJ’s birthday gifts.”

TW got up and opened the boxes and started to laugh…

“Didn’t you say you got your present yesterday and liked it?”

“Yes, I said that.”

“Well what exactly did you get?”

“What do you mean, what did I get? You’re the one who ordered it!?!” (At this point I’m thinking TW is totally nuts and trying to drive me nuts so maybe she can dump me in a long term care facility, steal my kids and move in with that new barrista she has a crush on…or maybe the gay guy at work that needs her help so badly)

“I got those little travel speakers for the iRiver, duh!”

TW laughs again, “That isn’t yours, that is RJ’s! This is yours!”

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“Well no wonder this morning you looked at me like I was an idiot when I said you could take a shower!”

No wonder is right, lol. Man, when did my life get so complicated?

Now about these little SudaCare Shower Soother tablets… I saw them advertised on the TLC channel when we were in Charleston doing our Clean Sweep/Trading Spaces/Property Ladder/What not to Wear marathon and commented on them quite a bit. We even searched the commmissary and the BX on the Air Base for them with no luck. This is the sort of thing TW does… you comment on something, you half heartedly look for it because it’s interesting and before you know it, you’ve got a carton of them. Luckily, I only got one box this time… at least I think it’s only one box…

The instructions say “For best results, place directly under water stream and face the tablet.” Well we have a tiny shower. In order to do both of those, I’d have to stand directly against one of the end walls and then I’m not under the dog gone shower stream which is totally unacceptable for me. If I’m taking a shower, I expect to get wet for goodness sakes.

Luckily though, we do have a small shower so that part about facing the tablet wasn’t really necessary. The thing was pretty much right under me and while it did give off a lot of that mentholy eucalyptusy vapor it didn’t give off so much that it burned the ummm sensitive areas (just a little tip here, do not get Vicks Vapor Rub in those areas… it’s not pleasant and it does nothing for congestion or sinuses… learn from previous accidents, that’s why we have those little accidents, to save you folks pain and discomfort!).

Anyway, back to the shower… as I said, it does give off a lot of that mentholy eucalyptusy vapor and my sinuses did feel a bit better BUT the scent reminded me of when I was a kid and my dad use to bath the dogs in MY bathtub with some special mentholy smelling medicated shampoo. So, it smelled like wet dog in the shower. I don’t know if that means I smelled like a wet dog or if the tablet itself smells like wet dog. Either way, it bugged me and I’m not sure I can actually bring myself to shower with those tablets again. Can you blame me?

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Daily Dose of Health – Lupus Awareness Month

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I know most bloggers are talking about Breast Cancer Awareness Month but I like to be different so I’m going to blog about the often overlooked Lupus Awareness Month instead.

1 in 200 Americans suffer from Lupus and 9 out of 10 of those are women. Lupus is an auto-immune disease and symptoms can vary widely. Everything from chronic fatigue to joint pain and mouth sores to severe nervous system problems.

People with Lupus often don’t look sick and I’ve heard many a story about family members, friends and coworkers who refused to believe Lupus was a real illness. If you’ve got questions about Lupus, there is a great Support Group on WebMD where you can find answers.

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Daily Dose of Life – Toilets and More

OK so once again, I’ve stopped blogging. I’m tired, sue me. I’ve had a lot of blog topics floating around in my head. I’ve had a lot of blog ideas saved in my RSS feeds from all of you really interesting bloggers who actually have time and energy to blog. Someday I might actually blog about those topics – they’ll probably be all retro and stuff but whatever.

I’m posting just a quick life update for those of you who might be wondering what keeps us so busy and distracted around here. Toilets mostly. TW puts in a lot of toilet time (she will love that I just said that) and we’ve been putting in a lot of doctor time and thinking about the doctor time recently because that’s all related to TW and her toilet time. You can read all about that umm stuff on TW’s toilet blog. As you’ll see, things will be busy along those lines all month long. Joys and blessings, our lives are full of them aren’t they?

And speaking of toilets, I took Michelle shopping last weekend for pajamas to wear to a pajama party and was instructed by TW to buy a new toilet seat. Well since she spends a lot of time there and Jackie has inspired me to take care of my IBS’d s/o, I went shopping for one. I’ve never bought a toilet seat before so I asked for guidance before I left. Luckily TW and I agree = no padded seats, no fuzzy seats and really we don’t want decorations at all. Just white is good and TW said not a wooden one and I immediately think wood grain and say so. She says no – no wood, like the one we have now, it stains too easily. Ha, I didn’t know ours was wood.

So I bought one, cheap and white at Target. TW installed it and all was right with the toilet world down here in the adult Flamingohouse Bathroom. Upstairs in the children’s Flamingohouse Bathroom they installed a Dolphin toilet seat that Michelle picked out and all of the kids love. It takes so little to please these kids. I can only imagine what games the little ones will play with the dolphin toilet seat…

The most interesting part about the toilet seat was the instruction page that came with it:

When cleaning your toilet seat, wash it only with mild, soapy water. Rinse the seat thoroughly with clean water and dry with a soft cloth. Never use abrasive scouring powders or detergents, disinfectants, or cleaning products in aerosol cans as they can damage the seats lustrous finish.

Ha, no cleaners on toilet seats? They must be kidding. Forget the lustrous finish (not that I have seen it looking lustrous and I looked really closely) we’ve got serious bathroom users around here. I am betting you have some in your house too. What kind of people do the toilet seat manufacturers think we are? No cleaners? Just soap and water and a soft cloth? Ha.

And last but not least, not related to toilets, TW and Michelle and I did a little live blogging experiment last night during the Gilmore Girls. It’s pretty darn amusing to see how the three of us chose to blog the show. Check it out, even if you don’t love the GGs and Stars Hollow like we do.

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Now back to my previously scheduled life, the fun never ends around here… Maybe next weekend I’ll go out shopping for some of these interesting dimmer switch covers, I bet they’ll look really great next to the sparkling toilet seat – wonder if they have them at Bed, Bath & Beyond.

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