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Booking Through Thursday

On Friday….

Booking Through Thursday

Reach out a hand, and grab the book that is closest to you. Turn to page 231, or pick a page at random if the book isn’t that long. Locate the first sentence of the last paragraph on that page.

  1. Type the sentence here: From "Emotionally Weird"…  There was a small knot of relatives of the deceased who, unlike the residents of The Anchorage – all of whom were clearly veteran funeral-goers – did not possess mourning outfits and were self-consciously attired in plums and greys and navy blues.
  2. Does the sentence make sense out of context?   Makes sense to me.
  3. Does reading the sentence make you want to read the rest of the book? Why or why not? That’s one hell of a long sentence, isn’t it? I’m not sure it makes me want to read the book but I am always interested in funerals and veteran funeral-goers.

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Daily Dose of Inspiration – Starbucks

Remember when I was griping about Starbucks and their "The Way I See It" cups #52 and #60?  We only get those cups every once in awhile so now I’m here to gripe about one of the new cups.  Actually I’m not going to gripe about it, I had been planning to do so but now I can’t.  (I don’t think I can even make fun of the cup or wonder aloud about the person who can make the statement on cup #74 with a straight face.)

I can’t gripe about it because I think I almost understand it and I think maybe I am a believer in the wisdom of cup #74

In a time when even our soil and air might not know the truth, the only solace we can take in decision-making about our inner peace is through honest, organic and sustainable farming.

That makes you want to laugh, doesn’t it?  I mean really, who talks that way?  The soil and air might not know the truth?  Ummm I’m all for pagan earth worthip and treehugging but isn’t that a little much?  NO of course not!  Because I get it!  We picked up our weekly supply of fruit and veggies  from a local organic farm group today and it was cool! and fun! and interesting!  and we know the truth!  Even if the air and soil don’t!

Honest! Organic! Sustainable Farming!  Yes!  I’m a believer!

I don’t know the name of the person who picks my peas.  It’s ok though because I don’t have grandchildren yet – I do, however, know Don’s name and phone number and I’m sure my children feel better because of it.

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Daily Dose of Diet – Pet Peeves

A recent blog entry on Blogher titled Bathing Suit Season is Coming Ladies, Start Your Diets made me shudder.  Thankfully it bugged Liz and it bugged Skye and it bugged Candace so I got to sit on my hands for a bit and hope the shuddering passed.  It didn’t, so here I am.  Why, why, WHY do we do this?  I say WE because I do it too, at work.  It’s a quick and easy way to pull women into a discussion about diet but it’s wrong, wrong, WRONG and I am vowing never to do it again.  Not for any reason.  EVER.

Have you ever seen an article about diet, about bathing suits or about warm weather that is titled "Bathing Suit Season is Coming, Men, Start Your Diets"?  No, you haven’t and I assume you never will.  In fact I hope you never see that article because it’s still wrong.

Diet should not ever be about fitting into a bathing suit.  It should not ever be about having fun in warm weather or going swimming.  Diet should be about overall health and not going to the beach, the lake or the pool.  Enjoying the beach or the lake or the pool or any other activity should not ever be dependent on how you look in your bathing suit or any other item of clothing. 

And while I’m ranting, weight loss or maintenance should not be a tool for empowerment or something that reminds you that you are "being all that you can be".   If so, those anorexics and bulimics are soooo  all they can be, aren’t they?  Controlling that food intake and managing the laxatives is certainly empowering.  Go eating-disordered people!  And those folks with metabolic disorders and hormone related weight problems or who are just plain happy in a size 14 or size 20 certainly shouldn’t feel empowered and aren’t being all that they can be, either – who cares if they are perfectly HEALTHY at such a weight? 

As long as we give food and diet that sort of "power" we are at risk of disordered eating patterns of some type.  If you only feel emotionally strong or empowered  when you are controlling your weight then you are risking your emotional well-being everytime you sit down with a bag of chips or order a nice dessert at a restaurant.   I’ve eaten an entire bag of chips in one sitting and I liked it!  And it does not cause me any emotional harm nor does it make me feel less powerful.  FOOD does not OWN me.  My WEIGHT does not CONTROL me.

Looking beyond the initial post, at the comments, Kalyn did talk about how important it is to lose weight and eat properly for better health.  But those comments were only in response to women who found the initial post troubling.  And she returned quickly to the topic of looks and appearance and what other people might think of us if we are overweight.   The idea behind the first post was dieting in order to look good  this summer and at no time did Kalyn manage to turn that around to anything healthy – either emotionally or physically.

Why do women continue to perpetuate the dieting for bathing suit beauty myth?  Why do we continue to use the phrase "thin is always better than fat"?  Why do we encourage each other to believe that we can’t enjoy a happy, physical life unless we look GOOD in our bathing suits?  Is it any wonder anorexia and bulimia are on the rise?  Is it any wonder our daughters grow up thinking they are ugly and hating their bodies?  I don’t think we can blame "the media" or "hollywood" or even "men".  I think the blame lies squarely with us. 

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Daily Dose of Charleston – Confusion

So we went to Charleston last weekend.  I was tempted to say "home to Charleston" but since it’s only me who considers Charleston "home" I resisted the urge.  I wonder if there will come a time when I don’t feel the urge to say "home to Charleston"?  I haven’t actually lived there for a gazillion years, (I hate the word gazillion and am only saying it because of RJ, which is another post so remind me to talk about that another day), and everytime I go "home" it looks less and less like "home".

I did successfully avoid the "bridges" for the most part.  The new bridge jumped into my line of vision at the Meeting St off ramp that looks so incredibly not like "home" that I almost drove off of the ramp because the traffic pattern was so wrong but other than that I avoided seeing any potentially heart breaking changes over there.  My mom found the book I had to have and I bought it in the Millenium Music Store – which is another building so not like "home" thatthe only reason I can go in is  because all of King Street looks so bloody different I can sort of pretend it didn’t exist at all when I was a kid and was just dropped into place after I moved away.  The book is a tiny flippy photo book of a "white car" driving across the Grace.  I love it.  I love that my mom saw it and chased me down across the store to tell me I needed it.  You can see the flippy book in action – go look! (click the books!)

Another incredibly not like home experience was driving through the Charleston Naval Shipyard.  OMG.  I have not been on the Navy Base since before I got married.  How run down.  How different.  How amazing.  I can’t begin to describe the differences or the sameness.  Unless you’ve experienced the Charleston Naval Shipyard in all it’s glory, unless driving through it in the 70’s felt normal and routine, there is just no way to explain the feeling of driving through it now for the first time.  My mom had not been back since then either so she is probably the only one I know who understands just what that was like.

Since I’m talking about this trip "home" I might as well talk about the &%$# airshow.  It was air show weekend and Jenn lives on the airbase.  What horrible timing I have.  There is not a worse weekend to be on an air force base than air show weekend and I can say that last weekend was the worse air show experience I have had in my entire life of air shows – and there have been dozens and dozens, at a half dozen air force bases around the world.  What idiots create a traffic plan to get civillians, military members and military family members TO the airshow but never stop to think that SOME military members and military family members might want to NOT attend the airshow? Or more importantly, that someone might actually want to LEAVE the base at 9am and NOT attend the airshow?  There is nothing more ridiculous than routing people from military family housing TO the airshow parking in order to get them OFF of the base – and then discovering that once you get them to the airshow there isn’t actually a plan to get them OFF of the base.  There’s nothing worse than talking to nice airmen at checkpoints at each corner of the base only to be told something totally different and usually completely opposite from what you were told at the previous checkpoint.  Whoever planned the airshow at Charleston Air Force Base this year should be given an Article 15.  Someone take care of that, please.

On the otherhand, the reservists manning the Pass and ID desk in BLDG 51 on Friday were awesome people.  Thanks for covering for the active duty pukes who blew off their Friday and left you holding the bag.  I appreciate it.

Another positive experience, though other members of my family may disagree, was the discovery of a new restaurant in North Charleston – Sesame (corner of Montague and Spruill – same side of the street as NCHS but right before the railroad tracks, off to the right – for those of you who may attempt to find it).  When I say new I really mean new – it was in its first week of business, I believe.  A rundown looking little concrete block building with a ton of vegetarian options on the menu – and when I say a ton, I mean a ton.  TW and I split a total of 6 different types of "mini" black bean burgers.  We tried three different appetizers (the onion rings, the bruschetta and the wings – the wings weren’t vegetarian) and all three were very good.  The sweet potato fries were possibly the best I’ve ever had.  These folks make their own mustard, ketchup and mayo and TW was in love with the ketchup – which is weird because she hates ketchup.  My girls were making strange moaning noises over their brownie sundae and the lemon iced blondie was reported to be ok but not as good as the brownie.  (Desserts are made by the folks at Five Loaves) There was some not so good stuff that happened during our dinner – a ticket mix up caused the bulk of our party (everyone except me and TW) to have to wait a good 30 minutes extra for their meal.  Then the medium to medium well burgers were not actually cooked to medium/medium well.  My sil ordered the "mini burger sampler" and got 2 of the burgers she ordered but the 3rd one was not the type she ordered.  The manager did remove her meal from the bill and gave her a free dessert, without prompting to do so.  If you visit this restaurant – order your burgers well done or order the black bean burgers instead.  Try the South Carolina burger, it has homemade pimento cheese on top! 

One other Charleston thought – don’t go to the Crap Crab Shack on Dorchester (heading toward Summerville it’s on the right, just past Ashley Phosphate).  We’ve been there twice and nobody except my sister in law and my son in law like it.  (If you do go, order the red potatoes and ask for some of the dipping sauce for the fried green tomatoes to go with – it’s the only thing I’ve found worth ordering).

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Daily Dose of Stuff – Monday

Monday_001_1Some of you noticed this little Precious Moments figurine behind the Gourd Girl I posted last week and yes it’s a definitely "What’s this doing in my house" item.

It’s in the house, and on TW’s dresser, because it was a Christmas gift from the woman who took over the care and feeding of the "three witches" when TW moved to her new office.  The new caretaker is very nice to TW and TW has been very helpful to her during the transition.  Thus the PM figurine gifting. 

Too bad I can’t manage to get to the box in the garage with some more PM items – owned by me… that’s another "What’s this doing in my house" post to look foward to!
Lee has already played, why don’t you play along too?!  What’s THAT doing in your house????

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