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GLBT Books for Teens

Here’s a list of books (in case Adrienne needs to help a gay teen again) I’ve either read or had on my list to read, most are lesbian reads but a few are bisexual or gay:

Luna
Keeping You a Secret
Define Normal
Perks of Being a Wall Flower
Annie on My Mind
Empress of the World
Hello, I Lied
Kissing Kate
Oranges Aren’t the Only Fruit (not an easy book for those with a "lower reading level")
Rubyfruit Jungle (though I am NOT NOT NOT a Rita Mae Brown fan, it has to be on the list)
The Order of the Poison Oak
Boy Meets Boy

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That’s So Gay!

It seriously stinks that the majority of books on Out.com’s Best in Books list are GAY and not LESBIAN.  What is with that?  It’s always been that way but it seems to get worse with each passing year.  Queer lit might be here to stay but it’s pissing me off.  I mean HOW doggone GAY?! (Not that I want to turn this into an us/them sort of thing, I just want a little equality in the list.)

Another thing that is annoying is my library only has one of these (besides the entirely too mainstream "What do you mean those dudes were gay?" Son of a Witch).  And as much as I like a good gay boy book (Have I ever told you about my Robert Rodi fixation???) I don’t like them well enough to BUY them.  Toss some lesbian books on the list and I might spring for a few.  Ya know?

I’m going to have to do some research and make my own BEST of LESBIAN LIT list!  Anyone want to help?

Thanks to Daily Dose of Queer for pointing out the OUT list!

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Trolls and Gay Boys???

Troll: A love story – now that was a weird book! I can barely believe that I spent time on this little bit of fantasy but on the other hand it was oddly endearing. Weird but endearing? So that’s why I spent time on it!

A gay man and those who love him (which include a veterinarian, a Filipina mail order prostitute bride, a not-gay man who is really gay, some other really smart dude with a lot of books and a troll cub). WEIRD, WEIRD, WEIRD.

Really short chapters with bits of troll lore and news articles and stuff tossed in between the chapters. Weird, weird, weird.

I mostly didn’t understand the abused Filipina prostitute mail order bride bit. Was that really necessary to the story? I mean really.

I don’t think I can actually recommend this but if you’re looking for weird gay boy troll stories, this is a good one.

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Daily Dose of Music – Decade

At the risk of making it look like I’m writing a MUSIC blog, or more likely a Melissa Ferrick blog, I’m writing another entry about music and Ferrick. I’m going to try really hard not to post about music (or Melissa) until at least after Christmas. Surely I can hold out a couple of weeks, can’t I? Maybe write about gay marriage or queer blogs or why boys are smelly but smell is no the prime indication that you are a boy or have a boy or maybe even that us/them piece about homeschool and school at home? Surely. But until then, Melissa it is.

Awhile back I talked about ordering two copies of Melissa’s DVD, Decade. Well I did and they arrived on Saturday to applause and whistles. Well no, not really, but Michelle did jump up and down and say “Thank you Mommy” about ten times. Which is high praise from an almost 16 year old.

Michelle and the half kid who half lives with us watched “her” copy upstairs and TW and I watched “our” copy in the bedroom on TW’s laptop (first time we’ve ever watched a DVD on a laptop in bed). It was cool, the DVD not the DVD on laptop watching part.

Really interesting to see Melissa and her “big break” – opening for Morrissey when she was 23 and unknown. How young and out of place she looked at the photo shoot, the makeup, the hair, the kiss Atlantic record executive butt nervousness. No wonder she was less than clean at that time of her life. And “Happy Song”, gosh I apologize for ever making fun of it or giggling about it (but I won’t apologize for having giggled and laughed at “Favorite Person in the World” cause that’s just one weird song for MF, ya know?)

From her big break to WAR to Right On Records and Brian – man I miss Brian. That’s pretty much what the entire second part of the DVD had me saying. I felt like a broken record. I miss Brian. I miss Brian. I miss Brian. I hope Brian Winton is doing a vanity search and comes across this post so he knows I MISS BRIAN. Pretty amusing and amazing watching MF and Brian setting up the studio at her parents’ house (too bad there wasn’t more footage of mom and dad, ya know?) and thinking about Valentine Heartache coming out of that big event. Cool, really cool.

Melissa – Decade was worth waiting for. I’m glad I bought two copies and I’m probably going to go ahead and order that third copy, just in case something happens to these two…

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Veronica aka Fag Hag?

Veronica is a fag hag of the worst, I mean best, kind. She apparently really loved the fag she was hagging with… so much so that she wound up with AIDS. Allie was not a fag hag, but a screwed up teen/young adult model with all the crud that apparently goes along with that.

What a weird book this was – told by Allie in jumps back and forth between “now”, as a 50 something year old woman with HepC, and “then”. We don’t get to hear much about “modeling” just a lot about the men who screwed her, the drugs and alchohol and the struggles of the “Go-See”.

Weird book. Not a bad book, just a weird one. I can’t decide if I actually enjoyed it or not. Some parts of it, I did. Other times I found I didn’t particularly care about Allison or Veronica or anyone else who crossed their paths.

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Lesbian Pulp Fiction

Doesn’t everyone love pulp fiction now and then? I definitely do. And nothing is better on a stressful day than a wee bit of lesbian pulp fiction.

The Girls in 3-B was just a LITTLE lesbian pulp. Generally this genre focuses on a couple of young women and their sapphic explorations. This one included three 18 year old girls and only one dabbled in lesbianism – the one who had been abused as a child, of course. And not the one I expected at first to be the lesbian. Not the rough girl, not the poet… the beautiful femme instead. Yea!

Other than that little switch, it was typical of lesbian pulp written in the 50’s.

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Daily Dose of Vacation – Hairbrushes

Snead asked, so what is it that makes you love this particular brush and today seems like the day to answer her.

Why does today seem like the day? Since I’m sitting in a four star hotel that is NOT remotely like the two hotels I’ve stayed in with her while in Atlanta – it’s MUCH nicer. You’d think I’d be doing fun hotel stuff, right? Fun vacation stuff, right? Looking out of the window at the offices that have caused me so much work angst lately and considered ways to get even, right? Well, I am doing fun hotel stuff. I’m not worrying about cleaning up messes and we’ve watched several episodes of What Not to Wear and I suspect Clean Sweep and the like will also make appearances. We did fun vacation stuff last night and will be doing more of that this afternoon, tonight and tomorrow, so chill folks. I’m having vacation time, I really am. As for the looking out the window at those offices… and plotting… well I would, but I like my paycheck even when I’m frustrated so I feel incredibly lucky that the great view from this room looks out over Atlanta in the opposite direction and makes plotting harder. Maybe another time?

You’re still wondering why I’m blogging about my hairbrush while on vacation, aren’t you? Or had you forgotten that’s what I set out to do? I almost forgot myself so I can’t blame you if that’s what happened. The reason today is the day is because I am in Atlanta at a Four Start Hotel and I have NO HAIRBRUSH AT ALL! That’s right folks. Me. The woman who is incredibly anal about hairbrushes and always makes sure to travel with three, at a minimum, has NONE. NOT ONE.

I blame MICHELLE. She was sick and not improving and laid on mommy guilt so rather than pack in my incredibly efficient way, I just threw things in and left TW to throw things in, as I rushed all over town yesterday getting Michelle to the doctor, getting her medicine, getting her a Halloween costume etc…

I blame TW. After all of the trips I’ve packed for her, you’d think she could have managed to think about my hairbrush. We’ve already established that she understands the importance of this one item in my life. Instead, she printed a copy of the itinerary and directions and such – which was unnecessary since I had already printed a copy earlier in the day!

I blame WORK. If I hadn’t found myself immersed in a project that I thought I was removing myself from, I’d have had time to take my sick child to the doctor earlier in the week. I’d have had time to buy her a Halloween costume earlier in the week. I’d have had time to pack in the normal, and highly efficient way, I normally pack.

Obviously, I’m fixated on my brush right now and I’m thinking about how unpleasant it will be to go and buy another one just to get me through the weekend. I hate new brushes. I hate that the handle feels different and the bristles feel different. The weight is different. I’m a woman who really dislikes change and when I get use to something, I tend to stick with it.

It’s not that the pink Goodys brush is some high end, BMW of hairbrushes. It’s simply that I am use to the size and shape of the handle. The weight of it in my hand. The bristles. The brush. It’s familiar, I know what to expect when I use it. I don’t have to think about the best WAY to use the brush. I just know, because it’s the same brush I’ve used for years and years and years. Even when I open a new package and pull a fresh one out, I know what to expect. Same size. Same weight. Same brush.

Maybe I’ll get lucky and find MY brush at the Eckerd around the corner? (And why is it that all of the Eckerds in my town changed to CVS but here in Atlanta they still have Eckerd?)

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Daily Dose of Luck – PRIDE

I’m a pretty lucky person. I’ve won more than my fair shair of raffles and door prizes over the years. But, the luck I’m talking about today is lube luck.

Every year at the GLBT PRIDE festival, the PRIDE committee raffles off baskets of ID Lube, (sometimes they raffle other stuff too), and they have a 50/50 raffle. For the last four years, I’ve been shut out of the winnings just once. And two of those four years, I won two prizes.

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Last night, I won the 50/50 raffle (and dropped the winnings into the PRIDE committee donations fishbowl, which is what I did two years ago as well). I also won the medium sized basket of lube. (I won a similar basket three years ago, along with tickets to the ballet) It’s a lot of lube considering we still have more than half of the lube left from that first winning night (most of what’s missing was given away lol). I wonder if some relief organization is in need of lube? Hmmm, I might have to make some calls and find out.

TW wants to know why I don’t play the lottery. Duh, obviously straight girls like my sister win the lottery and gay girls like me win lube. It would be a waste of my money to try and break the rules of luck.

Besides the lube and the 50/50 luck last night, I had a bit more luck show itself. My 19 year old son was wondering around the PRIDE festival wearing an “I love my lesbian mom” button. And when my 15 year old heard about it, she ran off to buy one to wear, too.

Yes, I’m a very lucky woman. Lube and kids who love their lesbian mom. It doesn’t get any better than that, does it?

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The Warrior Poet Adoption

In the beginning, when we were still disovering similar interests and different ideas in each other, TW and I found ourselves in the midst of what I like to call a poetry dance.  The "music" we were dancing to was the poetry of Audre Lorde.  On a message board, in a community of women, there were few who recognized Lorde’s words and even fewer who understood what Lorde’s words meant to us.  Typical and disappointing.  Finding TW in that place and finding that she not only knew of Audre Lorde but appreciated her was neither typical or disappointing.  It was pretty darn amazing.

I’ve mentioned my birthday gifts on the other blog; iRiver and clean sweep but now I’m going to tell you about the best gift of all!  (I know, how could it get better than that?)

TW adopted Audre Lorde for me!  It’s true, she did!  You can go right to this Audre Lorde page of the Poets.org site and look way down there on the right.  My name is there (along with some other obvoiusly cool woman in NYC).

A lot of time has passed since then and we’ve shared a lot of poetry since then but Audre Lorde will always be special to us both.  For who she was, what she said and the poetry dance the two of us shared. 

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