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Books for Girls

The New York Times has this interesting list of books for "girls" to read.  I really hate gendered reading lists like this but that’s a blog for another day.  Looking at the list, I think I’ve read four.  All four were very good. 

Interesting to see Luna on the list – I wonder if it makes the list of books for boys to read, ha! 

Flipped, also very good.  I think Michelle read this before we did.  Maybe right after we brought her home for school.  Or maybe it was Chris’s ex g/f who recommended it?  I don’t know, I just know we’ve all read it and we enjoyed it quite a bit.

The Earth, My Butt and Other Big Round Things was good but not something I’d recommend off the top of my head. 

Speak was a tough read, I’m surprised it’s got the 14 and up label.  I thought parents were more conservative than I am…

Oh wait, I’ve read 5 – Tiger Eyes, sort of boring actually.  I think I’ve outgrown Judy Blume or something.  Which now that I think about it, is really very sad.  I sound like my mother!  Ack!

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Daily Dose of Music – Random 10

necWow it’s been awhile since I’ve done this … and it’s a not-so-random 10 today, in honor of SXSW … my iRiver is only playing songs by SXSW performers.  How many SXSW performers are on your MP3 player?

1) Burn This Guitar – Melissa Ferrick
2) Margaret vs Pauline – Neko Case
3) Hairdresser on Fire – Morrissey
4) Hummingbird – Kris Delmhorst
5) All for Me – Melissa Ferrick
6) Black Friday Rule- Flogging Molly
7) Thankful – Glen Phillips
8) Bobby Lee – Kris Delmhorst
9) Talkin – Susan Cowsill
10) Hold On, Hold On – Neko Case

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Booking Through Thursday

Booking Through Thursday

This week’s questions about self-help books are from Nicki.

  1. Have you ever read a self-help book? Sure, I read everything
  2. What do you think about self-help books in general? Some of them are pretty interesting but some are trite, oversimplified or downright dangerous.
  3. Would you ever recommend a self-help book?
    Sure I would, I have recommended self help books in the past.

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Daily Dose of Blogs or Not Blogs

So when is a blog not a blog?  Or when is a blog entry not a real blog entry? 

George Clooney blogged for Huffpo yesterday or maybe he didn’t.  (the post has since been pulled down from Huffpo, here’s what it said:

George Clooney: I Am a Liberal. There, I Said It!

By George Clooney on Iraq

I am a liberal. And I make no apologies for it. Hell, I’m proud of it.

Too many people run away from the label. They whisper it like you’d
whisper "I’m a Nazi." Like it’s dirty word. But turn away from saying
"I’m a liberal" and it’s like you’re turning away from saying that
blacks should be allowed to sit in the front of the bus, that women
should be able to vote and get paid the same as a man, that McCarthy
was wrong, that Vietnam was a mistake. And that Saddam Hussein had no
ties to al-Qaeda and had nothing to do with 9/11.

This is an incredibly polarized time (wonder how that happened?).
But I find that, more and more, people are trying to find things we can
agree on. And, for me, one of the things we absolutely need to agree on
is the idea that we’re all allowed to question authority. We have to
agree that it’s not unpatriotic to hold our leaders accountable and to
speak out.

That’s one of the things that drew me to making a film about Murrow.
When you hear Murrow say, "We mustn’t confuse dissent with disloyalty"
and "We can’t defend freedom at home by deserting it at home," it’s
like he’s commenting on today’s headlines.

The fear of been criticized can be paralyzing. Just look at the way
so many Democrats caved in the run up to the war. In 2003, a lot of us
were saying, where is the link between Saddam and bin Laden? What does
Iraq have to do with 9/11? We knew it was bullshit. Which is why it
drives me crazy to hear all these Democrats saying, "We were misled."
It makes me want to shout, "Fuck you, you weren’t misled. You were
afraid of being called unpatriotic."

Bottom line: it’s not merely our right to question our government,
it’s our duty. Whatever the consequences. We can’t demand freedom of
speech then turn around and say, But please don’t say bad things about
us. You gotta be a grown up and take your hits.

I am a liberal. Fire away.

Is the Clooney "entry" a real blog entry if it was a) created by someone other than George b) comprised of quotes pulled from various interviews George has done?  Does it matter that Clooney did not sit down, like you and I sit down, and write a blog piece?  Does it matter that it was published in the same way the other Huffpo blogs are published without a tag line indicating George did not actually write the piece?

What matters here?  The presentation? The content? The lack of transparency and/or disclosure of Huffpo?  What if the majority of the Huffpo blogs are written/created in this way, (**edited to add that Arianna has provided information regarding how her bloggers blog.  If you click that link it will take you to her post, including that update)  does it matter to you?  Does Huffpo lose crediblity or gain it?

*** Editing to add this great post by Tish and another one from Tish who links off to Michael Weiss

***Adding Arianna’s next step – isn’t the blogosphere powerful???

***Adding a link to Snead and one to Drumsnwhistles, too. (both were in my comments speaking on the topic)

***One last update, Arianna was wrong and has learned her lesson

I’d love to know what you think.

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I don’t like sock monkeys

I’m not a fan of sock monkeys and I wasn’t all that thrilled with “Dickie” the sock monkey in Penn Jillette’s (yes from Penn & Teller) Sock. What a weird book. Weird isn’t generally a bad thing and it was probably the weird that made this worth reading. I mean sock monkeys. NYC police diver. Gay hairdresser. Serial Killer. Lots of dead people. And Proust. If that isn’t a weird combination then I don’t know what is.

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Daily Dose of Health – Review

It’s time for a little review, folks.  Feel free to share this with your dumber family members and friends.  Like if you have a brother who is 38 and hard headed and married to a really very nice woman who may not always make really good decisions, that’s a good person to share this review with.  Right now.  Before it’s too late.

If you’re playing hockey and it’s the 1st period and you start feeling these things:

  • Shortness of breath
  • Tightness in the chest
  • Really tired and weak arms
  • Blurred Vision
  • Racing heart
  • You should leave the game immediately, not in the 2nd period when you collapse.  You should go to the emergency room immediately.  Got that?  Go. To. The. Emergency. Room.  If it’s your husband who is 38 and in pretty decent health and not a hypochondriac who loves hockey more than, well, more than anything and he leaves the game in the second period because he has shortness of breath, tightness in the chest, really tired and weak arms, blurred vision and racing heart… Take. Him. To. The. Emergency. Room. Right. Now.  Do not suggest he go home because the ER wait will be long and he can just see his doctor in the morning.

    Got that?  Make sense?

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    Daily Dose of Food – Pie

    Pie_1 Happy Pie Day!  RJ wanted a pie for her class Pie Day celebration so some lemon creme pie was made over the weekend as a trial run.  All three small children seemed to like it quite a bit.  I tried a piece last night and it wasn’t too shabby – the fact that I tried it at all is a big deal because I don’t like pie.  The fact that I said it wasn’t too shabby is a really big deal because I DON’T LIKE PIE!

    Want the recipe so you can celebrate Pie Day with us?  ***edited to add…*** Sassymonkey Eats Pie

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    Daily Dose of Blogs – Money

    Thank goodness there was a podcast of the keynote with Dooce and Kottke.  Listening today while things were slow at work kept me from taking a nap and helped me get a lot of tedious behind the scenes chores done (I added that part in case my boss is reading).  It also gave me some time to ponder the two "business models" represented in the form of Dooce/advertising and Kottke/subscription.

    I can see both sides of the coin.  I’m a Libra and I can always see both sides of the coin so that makes it tough for me to sort out how I really feel about the revenue models in general and particularly related to the two bloggers in question.

    Jason said he thought Heather would do well with a subscription model and I can totally see that.  When he called her readers obsessed, he was right on target.  But if Heather is troubled by the mail now, going to a subscription model would be even tougher.  She’d have to pay Leta’s babysitter or Chuck to read the mail for her and pretend she doesn’t get any at all.  On the otherhand, why bother with subscription?  Ads on Dooce are working well, why fiddle with that?  Who cares if some dummies want to gripe about the ads, they can read the blog in an aggregator and never see the things if they are troubled. 

    When Heather said that Jason would do well with ADs, I think she was on target too.  I would never pay for a subscription to Kottke.  I don’t even read his blog on a regular basis (though everyone is right, he is a great link blogger).  I do visit him several times a week, usually because someone else has linked his blog. I understand that he doesn’t really like advertising but there are an awful lot of ad models out there that will allow you to choose your advertising.  It could work. 

    The part of the podcast I liked the most was when Dooce told Jason that she was troubled when he said his "experiment" didn’t work.  As a financial supporter, I can totally understand why she’d feel that way.  It bugged me that he said that, and I didn’t send him money.  I mean what DID he expect?  He got his readers to pay his salary for a year.  He even got to go on vacation (which I personally think was fine and wouldn’t have knocked him if I’d been one of his financial supporters).  What more did he want?  People to just send him more money out of the blue, for no good reason?  To be a keynote speaker at sxswi with Dooce – oh wait, he got that and still he’s saying his experiment wasn’t a success.  Dude, come up with a better way to explain how you felt about your year of blogging on someone else’s dollar.  Calling it "not a success" stinks.

    Now, on a personal level, the panel with Dooce and Kottke didn’t make even a wee bit of difference in my blog life or in my work life.  Unless I get Dooced (waving to my boss just in case) I’m not going to be trying to make a living from my blog.  The ads on my blog are there as an experiment (some of you may have noticed I have blogs on almost every available blogging/journaling platform, or have at one time.  It’s all an experiment, including various types of advertising that I’ve put up and pulled down).  I’m not expecting TW to quit her job and stay home and change diapers while I eat bon-bons in the basement like Dooce.  From where I was sitting while listening to Heather and Jason, it was just fun to listen to the exchange and ponder the worlds in which they live and blog.  But, if I ever stumble upon a cool dog like Chuck, then I might have to reconsider this whole making a living from blogging thing.  Chuck is what clinched it for Heather.  I’m not sure what Kottke has that keeps people coming – oh yea, the links, he gives good links.

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    Daily Dose of Stuff – Monday

    It’s Monday and that means it’s time for What’s This Doing In My House Monday.  TW suggested I photograph some weird metal bolt she found in one of the kids’ bedrooms over the weekend.  I was going to do that til I found a handful more of them in our room.  Now that we think we know why they are in our house, it seems sort of dumb to post photos of them.  So, I went off in search of something questionable.  It didn’t take long for me to find this.

    Monday_001  Monday_002

    I bump this thing every morning at 6am when I head out to feed the dogs.  I bump it everytime I head to the washing machine.  I bump it everytime I go to the big freezer.  It hangs on a piece of plywood that "covers" the hot water heater and I grumble about it every single day.

    It’s been in my house for a good two years, maybe longer.  I thought Christopher found it and brought it home with the intention of creating some piece of "art" with it.  But last week the 1/2 child heard me cursing it and started raving about how lucky he was to have found such a great "piece" to use for an "art project".  I interrupted his ramble to suggest he get to work on actually creating art with it or consider taking it to his parents’ house instead.  It’s still here. 

    ***edited to add link to Michelle’s blog about Split Rock, the photos are Chrisopher’s***

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    Daily Dose of SXSW – Quiet

    OK folks at SXSW why are you not liveblogging? Recording and uploading the sound quickly?  Don’t you know that some of us really need the liveblogging?  Some of us weren’t lucky enough to be there this year (again).

    So far this (thanks Kyle Bunch!) is all I have that is of any interest from the Dooce/Kottke exchange.  (I’ve found others who were there but they posted simply that they are bored or they’re not really listening and just surfing.  Hello, people.  Why are you there taking up space at SXSW, you could have come here and painted a bedroom instead????)

    Edited, here’s another link to a liveblog of Kottke/Dooce. (Thanks Steve Bryant)

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